"[W]hile sex positivity is often discussed in the context of acknowledgement and toleration for “non-mainstream” activities such as kink, BDSM, polyamory, LGTB orientations, or sex work, it necessarily implies toleration and acceptance of asexuality, disinterest, and even squicks: real sex positive people are as respectful of “no thank you” as they are of “yes please."

Clarisse Thorn on Why Active Monogamy is Also Sex Positive and Thus Needs No Apologies | Figleaf’s Real Adult Sex (via curvaceousdee)

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